Sex & The Single Vicar

Tales of Ecclesiastical Dating

In a weak moment, I posted on FB a week or two ago: “I am not a cat person. I am thinking of getting a cat. Please, advise.”  Well, truth be told I am not really much an animal person of any kind. Bailey, my youngest son’s half-Collie/half-Golden, lived out the latter of his fifteen …

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Catching my therapist up on my not so successful DCSingles dates, Sondra pauses and thoughtfully poses the obvious question: “So, Joani, what do you want?” “What do I want?” Well, not Bernie Sanders. I already wrote about him. And not the guy who is afraid of his own shadow — who I met for coffee …

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Looking for bromance? It seems Trump and Putin have been playing footsie under the table. Putin flirts with Trump and Trump’s heart is all aflutter. Tweet, tweet, Vladimir, strong leader. So handsome, shirtless and mounted on your horse. Of course, we have much in common. So Trump, a rank neophyte narcissistically plays the game — …

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First date advice from DCSingles: Dress up. Keep it short. Don’t talk about politics, religion, or your ex. Hmmm…not talking about politics is a bit of a challenge especially when you live inside the Beltway. And not talking about it in this Trumpian election cycle seems really hard. A political  junkie, with seven news apps …

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  I am dating myself in more ways than one. A child of the sixties, I grew up in the heyday of game shows. Before Match.dot.com,  Cupid worked his magic on The Dating Game.  Remember? Three handsome, groovy guys sitting on stools behind a screen; one wide eyed young woman in mini-skirt and go-go boots; a …

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Sorry to disappoint but S&TSV is not about “kiss and tell”. Hopefully you will find it wickedly funny, brutally honest, but not indiscreet. And well, so far there has been no kissing so there is no need for telling. But I have been practicing. No, I have not been practicing kissing myself in the mirror! …

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What is a bibliophile to do who knows zilch about dating? She reads a book, of course. So bibiliographically, I do a little research to discern who is the current expert in the field. Which means I googled: “book dating over 50.” Up pops a popular blogger on the Huffington Post: Lisa Copeland  of www.FindAQualityMan.com. On my …

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